People
should learn how not to 'jaga tepi kain orang' or mind their own
bussiness. I don't understand how people have so much time just to
disturb other's life. For me, 24 hours is so short just to mind our
bussiness because sometimes, I run out of time just to make my life
better than yesterday. So many jobs to be done. So many things I
should do just to make sure that I am satisfy with everything. If I
really have free time, I think I will spend it to make myself happy.
Go traveling somewhere with my husband. Maybe I should write more
novel. Read more books.
Too
much things to do right? How could somepeople spend their time
unwisely? Just to make themselves feel happy by ruining someone's
happines?
I
don't care about your life until you too care about mine. Because for
me, you do good to me, I will do better for you, but don't do bad to
make me unhappy, you should becarefull because I will treat you
worst.
If you
have this habit, too mind about other's bussiness you should buy a
mirror and see your own life. Just to make sure that you are too
perfect, that's why you have time to make bussiness in other's life.
I hate people who do that because I know, nobody's life is perfect.
Maybe some of them are awesome or just good. But there is no best
reason to disturb someone's life. You can't get in, in someone's life
and told them how they should run their life. Nobody will really know
about the best choice for someone's life.
For
some mother maybe they mind their child's life because she loves her
son or daughter. But if you are not his or her mom, you don't have
right to do that. Especially for me. My mother never interrupt my
life after she know that I am a big girl. When she pretty sure about
how mature I am. Her independent girl who hates this question 'Are
still slepping?'.
The
most annoying question I ever heard in my life. You can't ask me that
question just to make your life better. You can ruin other's
happiness to make your own happier. Life doesn't run like that. If
you have bad life, there is no reason why you should ruin other's. Be
a better person and just mind your own bussiness. For me, there is no
mercy for someone who dare to ask me that big question. My habit in
sleeping is not everybody's bussiness. Try to be logic! Why you ask
that question? For what? Is there a big problem if I am still
sleeping or not?
Other
bad question for me is 'are you pregnant?'. Why I should be pregnant
just because I married with someone? My mom never asked me about this
thing at all. Having a child is a big decision. And this is my life.
Why should I share about my pregnancy to others?